So it was inevitable after the first outing, but who would have imagined that those thoughts would be voiced only after two dates. Part of me is relieved that everything was laid out in such an upfront approach, and part of me feels cheated of the “game”, that men and women play each time they enter into something new. The former part is interesting to note, because it leaves little room to wonder, and to make excuses for random behavior, and so it gives me considerably more time to spend on myself, and since I don’t have to wonder, my desire in the game is drastically decreased, and so goes my resulting intrigue and appeal in the aforementioned.
So is it really a good thing? I’d say in a sense I won’t be as attached, because I won’t have exerted as much energy in achieving, or finding out, what I want to know, and am less invested… it would be less problematic. It would create less stress, and therefore fewer games. And to that end, the man benefits from not having to worry; however, in the sentimental department, I won’t be all girl-y and emotional and attached the same way he’d expect me to be… so maybe it’s not so great of a thing. Of course, this all depends on his perspective of what is good and bad.
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